FAQs

On this page:
Understanding Surgical Menopause
Hysterectomy & Menopause
Symptoms & Health
Treatment & Support
Long-Term Considerations
Mental & Emotional Health
Before Surgery
After Surgery
Is it normal to feel depressed or anxious after surgery?

Yes. Hormonal changes, combined with the emotional impact of surgery, can lead to low mood, anxiety, or grief.

What supports are available for emotional health?

Talking therapies, peer support, mindfulness, and sometimes medication can help. Don’t hesitate to reach out for support.

Can surgical menopause trigger past trauma or grief?

Yes. For some, it can bring up past experiences or feelings of loss. You’re not alone, and support is available.

How can I talk to my partner or whānau about what I’m going through?

Be honest and open. It may help to share resources or bring your partner to a medical appointment. Clear communication makes a big difference.

What questions should I ask before agreeing to ovary removal?

Ask about the reasons, risks, alternatives, long-term impacts, and what support you’ll need after surgery. It’s okay to ask for time to decide.

What does informed consent really mean in this context?

It means you understand what the surgery involves, the risks and benefits, and that you agree freely. You have the right to ask questions and to decline any part of the treatment.

Can I request a second opinion or different approach?

Yes. You have every right to seek a second opinion or ask about other options, including less invasive treatments.

Is it okay to delay or decline surgery?

Yes, unless it’s an emergency. Your decision should be based on full information and your own values.

What does recovery look like?

Recovery varies. You may feel tired or emotional. Physical healing can take many weeks to many months, and hormonal adjustment may take time too.

Who will support me after I leave the hospital?

Follow-up care may involve your GP, specialist, and ideally, a menopause-informed provider. Peer support can also make a big difference.

What if I don’t feel “like myself” after surgery?

Many women feel this way. It’s okay to grieve, to question, and to seek support. Your feelings are valid.

What if my GP doesn’t know much about surgical menopause?

You can ask for a referral or seek a second opinion. Bringing resources to your appointment may help too.

How do I advocate for myself in the health system?

Know your rights, prepare for appointments, and speak up about your needs. You deserve informed, respectful care.

How can I find a good menopause doctor?

Check the directories from the Australasian Menopause Society (AMS), The Menopause Society (formerly NAMS), or our own NZ register.

What other organisations or services can help?

Check our Online Resources page for links to local and international support organisations.

[Updated: 12 July 2025]